Soulmates

Soulmates.  It’s a funny word that is found in every romantic comedy and makes love look seemingly easy.  Growing up, I think everyone wants to believe there is one, special person out in the universe that is created for you to spend your life with.  I know I was that person, and after reading For the Right Reasons, I believe that Sean was initially that person, too.  But, life happens along with bruised egos and broken hearts, and it just makes that funny word seem so far away.

So much had to happen in order for Sean to meet Catherine.  He got his heart broken on national television.  She was selected to be on the show.  Sean selected Catherine to go on a date.  Catherine received his final rose.  We know the story.  It would be easy to say that fate brought Sean and Catherine together.  Sean even further humanizes himself and his relationship to say that they, too, have had struggles, but they are both committed to their relationship. 

Let me say this.  I have been happily married for almost three years, and I am madly in love with my husband.  Is everyday easy? No.  Do we sometimes disagree? Yes.  Every real couple goes through challenges and must decide whether to grow together or to grow apart.  As I am getting older and becoming a more seasoned wife, the idea of soulmates seems absolutely non-existent.  We both work hard to make time, support, and love each other.  It isn’t effortless, and I am starting to think that it probably isn’t for anyone.  


*My name is Jessica Binko and I’m a twenty-something teacher in mid-Michigan.  Having been a Bachelor fan since high school, my obsession has followed me through college and now haunts my husband on Monday nights.  

Pre-order Sean's book at http://rightreasonsbook.com/# .  The book will be released on January 27, 2015.